• you listen for the unspoken feelings behind a person’s message.
  • you objectively assess a situation before jumping to conclusions.
  • you realize you cannot make everyone happy.
  • you enjoy receiving from others without feeling indebted.
  • you are not obsessed with what others think of you.
  • you put yourself in others’ shoes.
  • you are aware of your own needs but are also sensitive to others.
  • you do not use blame or intimidation to get your own way.
  • you deal with conflict openly and maturely.